Faith is about how you live your life in the meantime, how you make decisions when you don’t know what for sure is next. What you do with yourself between the last time you heard from God and the next time you hear from God is the ongoing challenge of a life of faith.
From Anita’s [...]
I found this little book last week in a box of old papers. She must have found it at her parent’s house a few years ago and then brought it home only to get lost again. It is a small, cloth covered book that she made when she was 9 years old.
My Autobiography
by Anita Parker
All [...]
A few days ago I finished reading “A Grief Observed”, C.S. Lewis’ journal that he kept immediately after the death of his wife. One of the things that first struck me was from the Foreward by Madeleine L’Engle.
…when two people marry, each one has to accept that one of them will die before the other.
Wow, [...]
This morning was the worst day for me yet. Maybe it seem apropos that one day this week was the best I’ve had and this day was the worst. Or maybe they came from two different but equally important realizations.
I dropped Julia at school again this morning which provides a perfect early morning opportunity to [...]
This is a card and letter Anita wrote me as she was leaving Lincoln, then mailed from Omaha and I received it several days later when she was already in New York. The envelope was postmarked June 1, 1993.
The card read:
Will Love Last?
One of the most valuable lessons we
can learn from life is this:
That try [...]
Anita graduated college in May 1993 and then moved to Philadephia for a post-grad program. I still had two years of college before I graduated, so we knew that at that point, we’d be done. We had enjoyed our time together (5 1/2 months) but were both sad for it to end. She took her [...]
This morning, I dropped Julia at school and then drove by the cemetery to visit Anita and Peter’s grave site. Yesterday, I asked them to work on the dirt fill because the bad rain had washed away some of the soil. I was told that they would fix the dirt and were nearly ready to [...]
This is a list that Anita wrote to herself dated 5/24/06. I found it on our bookshelf and it was stapled with some other goals for her business and parenting.
Christian
- Perseverance
- Do not conform to the world
- Seek God’s will
- Love others
- Use all gifts to glorify & worship God
- Be child-like
These seem to me [...]
Today is a great day. I am feeling hopeful for the first time in a month.
My friends continue to be awesome with their support and love. Their prayers and comforting. My prayers and helping.
Today I was going through a box of papers from 2005, during the time we moved to Atlanta from Chicago. I found [...]
This is an email Anita sent to a friend of hers on Wednesday, December 24, 2008 3:13 PM. It’s from Seth Godin’s Blog (one she followed closely for quite a while).
I don’t think I’ve ever told you this – but this blog post changed my life. This is the blog post I read on the [...]