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She saw inside of us

Before I met Anita, I felt like a balloon – shiny and fun on the outside but hollow on the inside. Then I met Anita and she immediately saw inside of me and said, “No, the inside is the best bit.” And I believed her.

Because she believed in me, I believed in myself. I learned [...]

Unlearn something

Wall post late 2005:

It is not true to say that God wants to teach us something in our trials. Through every could He brings our way, He wants us to unlearn something. His purpose in using the cloud is to simplify out beliefs until out relationship with Him is exactly like that of a child [...]

As unto the Lord

Wall post from late 2005:

Service without spirituality is exhausting and hopeless; but in the same respect, spirituality without service is barren and selfish. We need to unite the two and do it all “as unto the Lord”. When we do that, something wonderful happens to out work in the kitchen. Sinks turn into sanctuaries, mops [...]

Meaning is not something you stumble across

This morning I stumbled across a box of more than 60 wall posts and notes that Anita left in a folder called “Personal Bible”. In 1999, I introduced Anita to the idea of a personal bible from a book I was reading called “Secrets of the Great Minds”. This idea was to write down in [...]

A day like no other

This is a longer essay that Anita wrote, most likely for an English class in the fall of her senior year. This was a more in depth version of her college entrance essay that I previously published, “A significant experience“. As I have examined Anita’s writings from high school on, I am more convinced that [...]

SOMEDAY/MAYBE LIST

Learn sign language

Make a comfortable living by working out of my home

Learn how to speak Spanish fluently

Learn how to speak French fluently

Travel to France with my best friend, Sophie, and her family

Know a lot about wine

Collect beautiful photographs

Visit Italy

Write something significant

dated December 20, 2006

How do we face the hard times and keep going?

From Anita’s “GOD” file – written February 22, 2009

How do we face the hard times and keep going?

2 Corinthians Chapter 12, 7th verse

Because of this surpassing greatness of the revelations, for this reason, to keep me from exalting myself, thorn in the flesh – prayed the Lord that it might leave me, and He has [...]

Requirements of Peace w/ myself

I was having a hard time last week, at least until Wednesday. Feeling bad for myself, lonely, like my life was out of control and that I just couldn’t do anything right. About mid-day on Wednesday, I started going through Anita’s “GOD” file and reading about her struggles that she gave up to God. The [...]

Peanut butter and chocolate life

From Anita’s “God” file – mid 2009

Mine is a peanut-butter-and-chocolate life. Filled with pairs of things that are quite the opposite and seem, to the casual observer, to be strange & impossible bedfellows, yet seem to find their meeting place in me.

- the non-traditional (racially, mom at home) traditional family (1 parent raises the children, [...]

Sunday Morning

The next song on Anita’s Mix is “Sunday Morning” by Maroon 5.

Lyrics:

Sunday morning rain is falling
Steal some covers share some skin
Clouds are shrouding us in moments unforgettable
You twist to fit the mold that I am in
But things just get so crazy living life gets hard to do
And I would gladly hit the road get up [...]